of 21 and weddings.

Hidup ni akan lalui banyak fasa. Dari awak kanak-kanak sampai lah remaja, lepas tu dewasa.
Fasa pandai berjalan, fasa first day of school, first day of period, fasa first relationship, fasa hati berkecai dan macam-macam lagi.
And so, salah satu fasa significant dalam hidup aku dan Sarah Hani is bermula nya

FASA pergi wedding kawan sendiri.

Bila umur dah jejak 20-an, aku rasa fasa ni akan menjadi satu fasa normal.

Last few days, we had been to two wedding of our dear classmates of 5Alpha. 2 wedding in the same week.

Yazmir as the first ever wedding of ours and Faiqah being the second one.

Yazmir & Dinie

Apa yang menakjubkan sangat pasal phase ni smpai korang dua nak significant ni?  

Kalau dulu,

• ikut mak pergi wedding, just pergi untuk makan makan lepas tu habis makan, sibuk dah " Mamaaa, jom lah balikkkkkk". Lepas tu mama mesti macam, " Sabar lahhh nak jumpa kwn mama tu jap." 

•  Dulu aku tak faham kenapa mak cik-makcik yang datang wedding tu sibuk sangat nak tengok  bilik pengantin. Aku tak suka sebab nak kena bukak kasut lah bagai.

• Tak payah nak effort sangat untuk bersosial dengan orang lain, senyum senyum. Sorok belakang mama. Kalau mama introduce kawan dia, salam je lah, senyum. Okay dah

•  Takpayah nak sibuk fikir nak beli hadiah apa untuk wedding.

•  Just grab je any baju kurung ke apa yang sesuai lahh.

Faiqah &Afiq

Tapi sekarang wedding kawan sendiri,

Datang, makan. Time makan duduk dengan sarah, mata akan in the same time akan scan surrounding. In slow voice, " Weh kau nampak sesapa yang kita kenal lagi tak?" Hah part ni akan ada dua option, Kalau orang yang discan tu macam rasa nak tegur, aim lah lepas habis makan. Kalau rasa macam awkward, AVOID EYE CONTACT. Roger? haha

Haruslah bersosial. This is the good time to meet old friends yang dah lama gila tak jumpa. Update pasal life mereka dan anda. Taking pictures. 

And tanya soalan cliche, " Hah kau lahhh kan lepas ni." Reaction paling comel and common, soalan ni akan dijawab dengan gelak, denial and pass dekat kawan kau yang lain. Fasa soalan, " Berapa anak dah sekarang?" mungkin tak sampai lagi. Sabar naa.

Maybe few days before tu berpakat dengan rakan yang lain utk beli hadiah apa. Brainstorm possible hadiah yang sesuai. And of course, akan fikir nak pakai baju apa dua tiga hari sebelum wedding tu. You want to look good at your friend's wedding dont you? :p

But among all those points, there is something that will indirectly knocks you. Bak kata Sarah, Reality check-in. We will starts to think of our future more seriously in a bigger perspective, i think. Start to figure out where is your life leading you currently. Bukan nak kata macam its the end of the fun time. No, definitely!

Cuma macam bila kawan kau dah menjadi someone's husband/wife, that the beginning of a higher level of life for them. And so, random thoughts macam,

What does it takes to finally decided to have a married life at your current age?

Are you ready? Or are you not? Or are you even on your way to prepare yourself ?

Something like that lah :p

To get married at any age, depends on personal view and mentality. 

There will be no right or wrong, win or lose arguement in this case :)

To Yazmir and Faiqah, 

Congratulation! :D

 Enjoy the journey of finally having a lifetime partner, a soul-mate in your life. It was such an honor to be there on your big, special day. May Allah bless your marriage with happiness dunya and akhirah. Barakallahuma ♥

p.s: Waiting for your cute babies! :p

Langkawi trip.

Okay merujuk kepada previous post Sarah Hani,

Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah! I passed my EOS5. Yeayyyyyyyyyyyy! :D

It felt so awesome to read the Congratulation! words on the result slip.

And so do the rest six of us. It was a great feeling knowing we can actually had our long-planned vacation with no worries :) 

Langkawi je punnnnn :p

So basically aku akan tulis pasal The girls, me and what we basically did in Langkawi.

Ala ala tajuk post, Tips to Langkawi. Konon.

First day | Tuesday 4th December.

Reached Langkawi airport late in the evening. Maybe around 5pm something.
We rent an Avanza. RM150/day. Worry not for any last minute plan, sebab dekat airport tu itself memang banyak kereta sewa booth and all. Just the matter of mahal ke tak lah.

Check in to Landcons Hotel. Bagi aku Landcons ni okay sangat utk mereka yang takdelah mencari sangat kemewahan dalam accomodation,with a reasonable price, dengan erti kata lain tidur okay toilet okay - settle lah. and plus its a walking distance to Chenang beach :D

Had our first dinner at Haji Ramli since its one of the korang-kena-makan-kat-sini suggestion.
Personal review, sedap lah worth the money even though aku rasa dia mahal sikit compared than the standard price. Next, shopping for tomorrow island hoping and beach day! :D
Oh well, biasa lah perempuan. Dengan beach hat nya, pario nya. Alasan "Langkawi panas okay." relevant nya kenapa kena ada beach hat.

       

Day two | Wednesday 5th December.

Island Hoping day! :D RM25/person is one of standard price.
Basically akan cover boat trip to Pulau Dayang Bunting -> Pulau Singa Besar -> Pulau Beras basah.

Seperti mitos yang diperkatakan, kalau nak subur mandi lah kat sini. Tapi itu mitos lah kan. Common sense nya, you know what to do.  La la la.
Recomended kena pakai life jacket yang disewa. Pit-stop one hour.

Pulau Singa Besar actually pit-stop utk tengok eagle feeding. Takde lah apa-apa sangat sebab akan duduk dalam bot je and tengok eagle tu catch makanan yang dicampak abg bot. Sebab umur pun dah 20-an so takdelah macam nak Omg helang sangat kannnnnnnn.

Okay next, Pulau Beras Basah. Pit-stop ni hang pi mandi-mandi pantai. The sand was super soft, lembut bak pasir dalam hourglass tu. Okay ni baru macam excited sikit :p

Ni macam bujet snow lah kan. Bila fikir balik, takde motif jugak. haha.

Petang tu kteorg main banana boat dekat Pantai Chenang. RM10/person.

Jatuh dua kali. Kteorg begging kat abang tu, Nak jatuh kat tempat cetek PLEASEEEEEEEEEEE.

Okay fine, first jatuh tu. TAK CETEK pun. Aku as someone yang paranoid air and lemas, lagi lah bertambah paranoid. How could youuuuu.

Oleh sebab aku hilang keyakinan dekat tahap 'cetek' abang bot tu, aku je yang tak jatuh dari banana boat sebab hold on too tight. Lepas beberapa saat aku tgk belakang baru sedar semua orang dah jatuh. FAIL. Lepas tu kau bujet konon nak parasailing. 

Ohh Pleaseeeeeee -_-

Third day | Thursday 6th December

Chocolate shopping day! First pit-stop Kedai Haji Ismail, sebab based on short survey its one of the cheapest you can get around there. Despite mungkin murah sepuluh sen. Worth. Apa lah makna nya balik dari Langkawi kalau tak pulang berbekal kan Daim, kan?

Suggestion: Shopping lah chocolate time last day or nak dekat balik if hotel takde fridge, or end up some of them actually cair :(

Datarn Lang. 

Aktiviti : Camwhore di tengah panas berlumur kan sunblock. Tegar. 

Salam perantaaun 2013.

Terima kasih JPA.

Chenang beach

 Tiba-tiba a guy ni datang dekat kteorg,
" Hey i like your hats. Mine is small. Yours is big. Take a picture! " 

Sampai sekarang tak sure tu perli ke puji.

Friendship rings.
No, we are never too old for that :p

Fourth day | Friday 6th December.

Went for the cable car. Surprisingly, the fear of height had been overshadow by the fear of water.
Ke di-overshadow dengan panggilan tunang? malam semalam. Tettttttttttt.
Yang lain muka nervous je dalam tu. Alalalarh comel je.

Next, Gamat House and Pantai Pasir Hitam. Lepas tu BALIK! :(

Pegang tangan takut jatuh nanti :p

♥

So thats the end of the our Langkawi wrap-up.

Lepas ni sorang-sorang fly pergi tempat yang lain. Sobs.

Euro tour, next. Maybe? :D 

InsyaAllah. kalau ada rezeki, we will surely meet each other again. 

Untill then ....

Lots of love,

your Intan Nur Hadilah .

" Nothing makes the earth seems spacious as to have friends at a distance, they make the latitudes and longitudes."

I'll love you for a thousand more.

intan nur hadilah

Terasa macam nak cerita.
Siapa lah tak tahu, Sarah Hani & Intan Nur Hadilah, the always-together twins in high school.
Memang tak dapat dinafikan, pergi mana-mana pun mesti berdua.
Sampai masuk college, takdir memisahkan kita. sobs.

But still nothing change as much back then in college.
We still texted each other like most of the time, shared even the slightest details of our life.
Plus minus, bila ada masing-masing start ada boyfriend time tu. Biasa lah conflict kawan baik, bila attention di-deviate kepada orang lain. Gaduh macam suami isteri. Comel nya kita sarahhhhhhhhhhhhhh? haha :P
Ohh well itu DULU.

Back in my 'belasan' tahun, i believe we all have this ideology of, BEST FRIENDS FOREVER.
We believe that nothing's gonna change, and no matter how old we are, best friends will always be happy together.

Well, its still not wrong to believe that.

Sambung balik cerita.
And untill the day Sarah finally flew of to Sydney. One of the saddest phase of my life.
To be separated away from my 'other-half'.

us.

First few month was hard. Time tu smart phone tkdelah common sangat.
Whatsapp, Viber bagai tu, kira the most new thing in town.
So we spent quite lots of money, on international calls and text.
We promise each other to try hard to keep our friendship as strong as we used to, no matter what.

But times goes by. Masing-masing semakin busy dengan life budak medic yang tak tentu busy nya ni.
And plus the time difference yang buat susah untuk kteorg 'parallel' kan free time.
Even though when we already connected to the most fastest and convenience communication ever.
Whatsapp, Viber, Skype, Twitter etc.
The text and call slowly 'dissapear'. The ritual update become less and lesser.
And we feel even far than we already are.

Honestly, banyak isu tak puas hati manja yang timbul dalam fasa ni.
Isu cemburu
Isu 'kenapa aku je yang selalu nak kena tegur kau dulu",
Isu " fine lah dia lagi penting dari aku now."

Haha.
Hot and cold, Dark and bright. Happy and sad. All in one.


Untill,

I learnt the meaning of loving someone not for the sake of dunya, only.
I search for the real meaning of it. And i finally came cross to an article, which change the whole perception of our friendship to me. Im not good in explaining these things. But do read it if you want :)

Things will definitely change. What matter is how you handle it.

Yes there are things in life where we imagine and dream of how life would be.
And we try our very best to make it true. Tapi akhirnya kita hanya manusia biasa.
So we have to believe on a power beyond our ability to make the rest as beautiful as it might be.

Sarah Hani is not 'mine'. She is a gift borrowed by Him for me. So does, this friendship.
If we cant even keep up with the most fastest net in the world, I shall put my heart and trust in Him to make this friendship goes fonder each day even without the 'how are you' texts.
And whenever i miss her, i'll pray that she can feel it too. hihi :')

All praised to Him, all those unnecessary emotional tense and burden on us, is slowly being understood and accepted with love ♥ :)

She is still my dearest person, and will always be. InsyaAllah.
I love you Sarah Hani, for the sake of Him
:)


Oh my, panjang gila post ni :p

kak Diana Rizal :)

intan nur hadilah




Dear Kak Dee, the only person on planet Earth who will call me Jewels.

How time flies, you had finally graduated from IMU and flying off too Scotland next Tuesday.
Congratulation my dear, you deserve every single of it :)

I'm not sure how we can be this close.
I cant remember how we started, but I can surely remember the wonderful feeling of having you around.
And I know for sure I'll be missing you, BIG TIME :(

Akan,

Rindu jumpa kak Dee around IMU with your purple bag.
Rindu kacau kak Dee dekat library.
Rindu borak dengan kak Dee.
Rindu nak mengada-ngada.

You are like a big sister to me, and of course to our other dear friend too, you know who.
A 'consultant' for us too, perhaps? :p Being there, for the up and down.
I can randomly tell you everything and anything, you'll be one of the person i look for if i need some personal opinion whenever I'm lost.
And your response always make me go,

"OMG, kak dee sangat memahamiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii! "

I shall thank HIM, for a sister named Diana Rizal. For this lovely friendship. Alhamdulillah.

Take care in Scotland. May Allah ease you life over there.
And balik nanti intan nak souvenir okay? :DD

Uhibbukifillah ♥


P.s: Please dont make me cry. Thank you for writing this :')

Fourth semester.

intan nur hadilah
♫ Marching On - Timbaland ft One Republic ♫

The circles of ME210. ♥

" So many hills we had to climbalmost without our strengthbut we keptslowly marching on..."

Semester four please be nice and awesome :)

Moving on different track and we can't slow down.

 ♫ ♪ Graduation ( Friends Forever)  ♪♫   

when we look back now, will our jokes still be funny?

 Ohh well, I hope so :)

Another good friend from our circle is flying away to Melbourne on this 9th February.
And when i thought the phase of me saying goodbye to my dearest friends who are flying abroad is over, here comes Muhaimin ( Min) telling us the good news. He flying off to Melbourne to finish up his Degree for another 2 years. Yeay for him :)

So thats make only Huari and me left in Malaysia for now.

Min seorang yang kalau bercerita amat lah susah nak berhenti. Lagi lagi kalau cerita pasal stuff yang dia suka.
Honestly he talks A LOT, and you can actually start a conversation with any general things with him.
Maybe a mild,kind version of Sheldon Cooper i can say :p
Ahhhhh. Im gonna miss him in our future meets. Seriously.

Trademark Min yang sangat prominent,

Bila reply tweets kteorg ke, mesti dia insert LOL.
Lepas ni kalau ada birthday, siapa nak tulis ' BSURSICUB4' on the kad.  Satu lagi trademark Min bila wish birthday kteorang :D

He's not coming back for long holidays within those 2 years.
And i just realized that, for all of us to gather around at the same times, will be more difficult soon.
With  Sarah and Min in Aust, Nadia, Yazmir and Sue in India and finally Azri in UK, only He knows when.

cc: Sarah Hani.

 Lagi susah lah kau nak plan date tunang dengan kahwin kan? :/

haha :D

Okay Muhaimin Yusman, if you're reading this, ' Be as you are as i see you before.'
Kalau nak bawa balik wife orang sana, please inform awal-awal.
Kalau nak bawa balik boy friend mat salled pun, kena inform juga.

Tapi regardless what, bawa lah balik segulung ijazah Kejuruteraan untuk kebanggaan ibu tersayang ♥


P.s :Ohh lupa, solat jangan tinggal ye.


Pp.s: Hah okay,baru lah lengkap blogpost ni :P