of 21 and weddings.

Hidup ni akan lalui banyak fasa. Dari awak kanak-kanak sampai lah remaja, lepas tu dewasa.
Fasa pandai berjalan, fasa first day of school, first day of period, fasa first relationship, fasa hati berkecai dan macam-macam lagi.
And so, salah satu fasa significant dalam hidup aku dan Sarah Hani is bermula nya

FASA pergi wedding kawan sendiri.

Bila umur dah jejak 20-an, aku rasa fasa ni akan menjadi satu fasa normal.

Last few days, we had been to two wedding of our dear classmates of 5Alpha. 2 wedding in the same week.

Yazmir as the first ever wedding of ours and Faiqah being the second one.

Yazmir & Dinie

Apa yang menakjubkan sangat pasal phase ni smpai korang dua nak significant ni?  

Kalau dulu,

• ikut mak pergi wedding, just pergi untuk makan makan lepas tu habis makan, sibuk dah " Mamaaa, jom lah balikkkkkk". Lepas tu mama mesti macam, " Sabar lahhh nak jumpa kwn mama tu jap." 

•  Dulu aku tak faham kenapa mak cik-makcik yang datang wedding tu sibuk sangat nak tengok  bilik pengantin. Aku tak suka sebab nak kena bukak kasut lah bagai.

• Tak payah nak effort sangat untuk bersosial dengan orang lain, senyum senyum. Sorok belakang mama. Kalau mama introduce kawan dia, salam je lah, senyum. Okay dah

•  Takpayah nak sibuk fikir nak beli hadiah apa untuk wedding.

•  Just grab je any baju kurung ke apa yang sesuai lahh.

Faiqah &Afiq

Tapi sekarang wedding kawan sendiri,

Datang, makan. Time makan duduk dengan sarah, mata akan in the same time akan scan surrounding. In slow voice, " Weh kau nampak sesapa yang kita kenal lagi tak?" Hah part ni akan ada dua option, Kalau orang yang discan tu macam rasa nak tegur, aim lah lepas habis makan. Kalau rasa macam awkward, AVOID EYE CONTACT. Roger? haha

Haruslah bersosial. This is the good time to meet old friends yang dah lama gila tak jumpa. Update pasal life mereka dan anda. Taking pictures. 

And tanya soalan cliche, " Hah kau lahhh kan lepas ni." Reaction paling comel and common, soalan ni akan dijawab dengan gelak, denial and pass dekat kawan kau yang lain. Fasa soalan, " Berapa anak dah sekarang?" mungkin tak sampai lagi. Sabar naa.

Maybe few days before tu berpakat dengan rakan yang lain utk beli hadiah apa. Brainstorm possible hadiah yang sesuai. And of course, akan fikir nak pakai baju apa dua tiga hari sebelum wedding tu. You want to look good at your friend's wedding dont you? :p

But among all those points, there is something that will indirectly knocks you. Bak kata Sarah, Reality check-in. We will starts to think of our future more seriously in a bigger perspective, i think. Start to figure out where is your life leading you currently. Bukan nak kata macam its the end of the fun time. No, definitely!

Cuma macam bila kawan kau dah menjadi someone's husband/wife, that the beginning of a higher level of life for them. And so, random thoughts macam,

What does it takes to finally decided to have a married life at your current age?

Are you ready? Or are you not? Or are you even on your way to prepare yourself ?

Something like that lah :p

To get married at any age, depends on personal view and mentality. 

There will be no right or wrong, win or lose arguement in this case :)

To Yazmir and Faiqah, 

Congratulation! :D

 Enjoy the journey of finally having a lifetime partner, a soul-mate in your life. It was such an honor to be there on your big, special day. May Allah bless your marriage with happiness dunya and akhirah. Barakallahuma ♥

p.s: Waiting for your cute babies! :p